by
Marie Hartwell-Walker, Ed.D.
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From my files: When the Board of Health went into the home, they discovered 38 cats and three dogs living in squalor with an elderly brother and sister. Feces and urine covered the floor. Most of the animals were sick and dirty. But their owners insisted that they loved their animals and that they did a good job caring for them. When Mary, age 50, married Bill, age 58,
she knew he loved cats and that he had quite a few. She wasn't prepared
for cats on the counters, cats in their bed, cats on the table when they
had meals, and cats having first rights to every chair. She was even
less happy with money going to special cat food instead of bills and the
amount of time every day that Bill devoted to talking to his cats
instead of paying attention to her. When she complained, Bill said,
"If you try to separate me from my cats, you will have to
leave." After five months of trying unsuccessfully to get him to
change, she filed for divorce. A 48-year-old woman was discovered to
have over 70 cats, many of them ill, living in her home. “I’m the
Mother Theresa for cats,” she replied when asked why she had so many.
She went on to explain that over the years she had rescued each of the
animals because it was sick, injured, or a stray. She was convinced that
only she could provide the care they needed. The neighbors of an elderly woman
complained of a horrible smell coming from her third floor apartment.
When police went to investigate, they found dozens of cats. Too frail to
get litter up to her walk-up apartment or to change the boxes, their
owner had trained the cats to use her former bedroom as a giant litter
box. She insisted that the animals were like children to her and that
they were the only beings that had ever made her feel truly loved. It’s remarkable how many people have
heard stories like these! And yet, there is little in the psychiatric
literature about the phenomenon of over-accumulating pets. But I’ve
found that when I talk about it, often enough the listener knows someone
who knew someone who had so many animals that they overwhelmed her
ability to care for them. Usually, these situations come to the
attention of Boards of Health, animal rescue organizations, and the
legal system instead of the mental health system. But studies now show
that many, if not most, of the people who create a lifestyle that is
overrun by animals are mentally ill. Our communities need to reconsider how
these cases are handled. Often, a Board of Health will condemn the home,
euthanize the animals, and perhaps take the owners to court for
destruction of property and/or cruelty to animals. The owner is then
left to cope with the loss of the animals, the loss of her or his home,
and the loss of the organizing principle (the relationship with the
animals) that has kept her or him marginally functional. The experience
is devastating. Sometimes it results in homelessness and an increase in
the symptoms of mental illness. When
a Lot of Animals is NOT a Problem: There certainly are people who live their
lives surrounded by animals and who don’t have problems with it. Farm
families, for example, often have dozens of barn cats to keep the rodent
population in control. These animals aren’t pets and the families
don’t attribute special qualities to them or develop special
relationships with them. They are simply a part of farm life. Other people are truly cat or dog lovers
and have many pets. These people take good care of the animals and
maintain a balanced life that includes self-care, work, friends, and
family. Although very fond of their pets, they don't let their
relationships with the animals dominate their lives to the exclusion of
people and activities. Still other animal lovers find a way to
make a living based on their passion for animals. Professions that are a
positive expression of caring for animals include being a breeder or a
veterinarian, running a stable, or managing a shelter for homeless cats
and dogs. In all cases, these professionals provide appropriate care and
have a realistic understanding of the relationship between themselves
and their animals. When Multiple Pets May Indicate a Mental IllnessPeople whose lives are unmanageable due
to the number of animals that share their home are usually suffering
from some form of mental illness. Symptoms of mental illness may include
some combination of the following: The individual believes that she or he is
offering the animals exceptional care despite the objective evidence
that many are ill, malnourished, dirty, and/or dying; The individual sees the animals as
children or siblings and looks to them for love he or she never found
with other people; The individual believes that she or he
has a special ability to communicate directly with the animals or that
there is a spiritual connection with them; The individual feels compelled to bring
home any stray or injured animal, believing that only she or he can give
it adequate care; The individual's home is so disorganized
and cluttered with animals and useless objects that it is impossible to
function within it; and/or The individual fails to recognize that
the condition of the home is a health risk for people and animals alike.
What Can Be Done? A Call for CompassionCondemning the building and killing the
animals solves the immediate problem for the community, but it does so
at a price. Often people who collect animals are surprisingly functional
in other ways. Many hold jobs and manage money reasonably. But when they
lose their animals and homes, they fall apart. Often these people have
no relatives who want to take them in and few resources for starting
over. They then become the charge of either the mental health system,
the legal system, or both. A more compassionate approach to the care
of these individuals would result in lower human and economic costs.
Such an approach might include these elements: Recognizing that the problem is born of
illness, not of rebellion, carelessness, irresponsibility, or a desire
to act out. If this were the case, the first response would include
mental health workers as well as the Board of Health and police. Making treatment available as mental
health researchers and practitioners develop more understanding of the
phenomenon and models for treatment. Psychotherapy and perhaps some
medication can help these individuals keep their homes, keep at least
some of their animals, and manage their lives. These people need to be
helped into appropriate treatment. Arranging support to help these
individuals manage their pets and keep their homes.
Deinstitutionalization of the mentally ill has resulted in the
development of many excellent community-based services. If we see these
people as ill, we need to be willing to provide them with the same
supports and direct help (outreach workers, housekeepers, case managers,
representative payees) that our communities provide to people with other
diagnoses. There are some communities, especially
small towns where the "cat lady" is a town character, where
the local authorities try to work with the situation rather than take
radical steps to simply end it. We have much to learn by studying the
outcomes of these efforts. More research is needed to determine the most
effective ways to help. My guess is that we don't yet know how
many people are suffering because they accumulate too many animals. It
is, after all, a quiet illness. Unless the situation becomes so
out-of-hand that someone makes a report to authorities, it can go on for
years and years before anyone notices. By then, the home can become
uninhabitable. We need to find ways to identify the problem early and to
redefine it as an issue for treatment, not simply an issue for social
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